Frequently Asked Questions
What should I expect when I get to your dungeon?
If you are a first timer, we will go over a brief questionnaire that covers
general information about you, your health, experience level,
limits, and views on the various aspects of BDSM and fetishism. I
combine my interests with your responses to customize your scene. Once
this pre-scene interview is complete, I will go over the use of safe
words with you, and the scene will begin. If we have done the
questionnaire via telephone or e-mail prior to your arrival, your scene will
commence the moment you walk in the door. If we have met before, the
scene will commence immediately upon your arrival, as I will recall your
information.
Will other people be there?
My dungeon is extremely private. I am an independent dominatrix. The
only time anyone else will be at the dungeon is if you
request a multiple BDSM professional session. Otherwise, it will just be
you and me.
Is another BDSM professional available to join us (i.e. mistress, master,
TS, switch, or submissive)?
I work with select BDSM professionals. If you wish to have someone
join our session, let me know and we can discuss arrangements.
Each of these individuals is a professional, so there is an additional
donation for their service.
What if I have never seen a dominatrix before?
I specialize in making novices feel at ease. Any first time experience
is intimidating, particularly when it deals with one's innermost
secret desires. It is important to remember that I am a seasoned
professional.
You will always be treated with respect and understanding. Exploring
forbidden fantasies and fetishes need not be a terrifying prospect. Keep
in mind that your scene is completely safe and discreet. Relax and let
my experienced hand guide you into the realm of sub-space or the
realization of your fetish fantasies.
What will happen during our scene?
Much of what happens during our scene depends upon my mood and your
questionnaire responses and needs, desires, and limits. It is much more enjoyable when you let go and
enthusiastically get into the scene.
What won't happen during our scene?
I am a BDSM/fetish professional, so I do not provide personal services,
such as sex acts, escorting, massage, or anything
else that is illegal in my jurisdiction. I wear fetish attire and
costumes appropriate to our scene. I do not provide nudity.
If a scene includes corporal punishment, will you leave marks?
I will respect your mark limit. Your options are no marks, marks that last a few days, or
those that linger for a couple of weeks. My expertise allows me to use
exactly the right amount of force to leave the desired impressions or
lack thereof.
What about your neighbors?
My neighbors are clueless about the existence of my dungeon. I expect
you to be judicious, inconspicuous, and virtually invisible, so as not
to upset the delicate balance of the secret location I created.
Do I need to bring anything?
If you wish, you may bring your own cross-dressing supplies, medical equipment,
enema gear, paddles, and the like. I find that many clients prefer to provide their
own accoutrements. I find this perfectly acceptable.
Do I need to bring you a gift?
Gifts are always appreciated, but unnecessary. I must say, however, that some of my most memorable moments are with those who choose to grace me with a gift. If you wish to gain my favor with a gift, some suggestions are listed below in order of preference.
Fetish Items: See the wish list of the persona
you are visiting.
Fragrance: Chanel Coco Mademoiselle (after-bath powder,
bath gel, body lotion, eau de parfum)
Flowers: Orchids, Lilies, Tulips, Roses, Peonies,
Lilacs
Candles: Fruit-Scented Housewarmer Candles by Yankee
Candle Company
Gift Cards:
Sephora,
Amazon,
Sephora,
Lane Bryant, Go
Phone,
Go Daddy,
Peapod, Credit Card
Do you have referrals?
Due to the discretion required by my career, referrals are impossible to
provide. I believe that my Web sites speak for themselves. If you desire proof
of my prowess, read my reviews on The Hang on Max Fisch.
Unfortunately, they are a bit dated, as it seems review writing has went by
the wayside.
When do you schedule sessions?
My dungeon is open seven days a week. You must schedule at least 24
hours in advance. If you are a return client, I may be able to squeeze
you in with less than 24 hours notice.
Do you offer extended scenes?
I offer sessions of any duration, as long as it is at least a one hour
period.
I encourage you to session for as long as your budget will allow.
Imagine the thrill of spending the night chained at the foot of my bed,
confined in a cage in
my dungeon, restrained in a hospital bed in my clinic, or tucked away in a crib in my nursery.
The possibilities are endless.
Is this safe?
My play space is in a very safe, upscale neighborhood with ample, free
parking. You will have a
safe word and I will respect your limits. My facility is spotless and sanitary. I believe in safe,
sane, and consensual BDSM/fetishes/domination/role-play.
What if I don't like it?
I am a dominatrix with over a decade of professional BDSM experience. I put my
heart and soul into every scene. Some people enjoy it more than others, but
you will never have a bad experience in my dungeon. Reality
dictates that, sometimes, the chemistry is just not there between us. If you
feel I am not the one you are looking for, I suggest trying another
dominatrix in the area. Choose an independent dominatrix who maintains her own dungeon,
has her own Web site, and has years of experience and good reviews under her belt. This will
help you avoid winding up with a clueless wannabe.
What if I change my mind, once I get to the dungeon?
In the event you change your mind, feel free to leave, but don't even think
of ever returning. Also, have the common courtesy to compensate me for
my time, since I turned down other clients to see you.
What if I cannot make a scheduled appointment?
By all means, call or e-mail to let me know! I will not be upset. I get
upset when I spend over two hours preparing myself and the appropriate theme
room for a scene and sit around waiting for a no show. I have never been
able to comprehend how a seemingly sane person can commit to a scene, then
not show up for it and give me a courtesy call or e-mail to inform me of the
cancellation. This is my biggest pet peeve. It
is rude, crude, and socially unacceptable to schedule a scene, then stand me up
without warning. A quick call or e-mail to let me know you cannot make it is no
problem. Standing me up without notification is a huge problem. Do NOT even bother to call me,
after the fact, with a weak excuse, and try to reschedule. Mistresses run in
a tight circle. Your reputation is on the line. We discuss trouble makers
and no shows, so behave and show some respect. This is our passion! It is
not a hobby or a joke. Your rudeness will come back to haunt you. You will
be blacklisted.
What should I do to prepare for a scene?
Shower and brush your teeth.
Avoid alcohol for 24 hours prior to your session.
Do not arrive under the influence of drugs or you will
be asked to leave.
Have a light meal or snack and drink lots of water before your scene.
Am I weird for wanting to do this?
No, and you are not alone. Unfortunately, our society has fostered
an air of shame around fetishism, BDSM, and alternative lifestyle choices. Be proud of who
you are. I have heard, seen, and done it all over the years. Nothing shocks
me. Don't be shy about expressing your fantasies or explaining your fetishes
to me. I will listen attentively and try to accommodate you. I suggest
reading any book by Dr. Gloria G. Brame, who offers loads of insight into the
BDSM lifestyle and fetishism. There are many other informative books out
there. Try a search for "BDSM" on Amazon.com.
Do you do scenes with couples or females?
Yes, but I am extremely selective about this.
Do you do scenes with transsexuals and transvestites?
I enjoy sessions with transgendered individuals. I especially enjoy being served by a tranny slut or sissy
maid.
Is your facility receptive to the pansexual community?
I am very sensitive to the needs of LGTB clients.
May I ever become your personal slave?
Extraordinarily exceptional submissive persons who meet my criteria will be offered
the opportunity to apply as personal slaves. I am very picky about whom I
allow to serve me on a personal basis. It
is a one in a million chance that you will please me enough to enter my
personal life.
Will you travel to my location?
I love to travel. E-mail me to inquire about arrangements.
